http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/ 杭州家教1＋1家教网，您最值得信赖的家教平台 hzzhaojiajiao hzzhaojiajiao http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104294.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">莫把“因材施教”的经念歪了 </SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">&nbsp;</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6d1f; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="2" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-2-5</st1:chsdate><BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6d1f; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp; <BR>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">据报载，山东省淄博市临淄区齐都花园小学今年为一年级新生分班，采用了依据血型分班的原则。当家长对这样的怪事质疑时，老师竟然说，按照血型分班，是为了从孩子的性格方面因材施教，更加利于培养和发展孩子在某些方面的特长。这样的回答，真是让人啼笑皆非。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><BR></SPAN>　　据我所知，科学界好像从未有过血型与学习和特长有关系的科研结果，这所学校竟然想出这么个标准来分班，可谓<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>创新<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>到了极致。那么，这所学校在给教师分配办公室时，会不会也要看看教师的血型呢？按照这所学校的逻辑，按血型给教师分办公室，岂不更加有利于发挥教师的特长？不过，笔者担心的，是学校以<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>名义来做这件事。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><BR></SPAN>　　近一段时间以来，打着<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>幌子干违背教育规律的事不断发生。比如，某学校通过考试对学生进行分班，成绩好的学生分到<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>重点班<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>，<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>后进<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>的学生分到<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>普通班<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>。当有家长质疑这种做法的时候，学校便打出这张牌，说按成绩好坏分班是为了<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>。再比如，一些地方把进城务工人员子女同城里孩子分开编班，当人们提出不同看法时，一些学校（甚至教育部门）也拿出<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>这张牌来，说这样做是为了照顾农民工子女，是为了他们好，免得与城里孩子分在一个班而受歧视。而事实上，城里孩子还是愿意与农民工的孩子交朋友，并乐于帮助他们的。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><BR></SPAN>　　按血型分班，也许是某些人的个人喜好，或个人迷信，但在<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>这个幌子的掩护下，竟然堂而皇之地变成了一种<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>创新<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>。按成绩分班的目的，是要集中力量提高升学率，是<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>天下人尽知的事<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>，而披上<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>的外衣后，学校就可以无所顾忌地集中优质资源进行升学攻坚。而那些以<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>名义把农民工子女与城里孩子分开编班的学校，其实是怕这些学习成绩参差不齐的农村孩子会拖学校考试成绩的后腿，影响学校的升学率。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><BR></SPAN>　　毫无疑问，<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>是素质教育最重要的理念之一，其核心就是根据学生的实际情况进行教育。其所指向的是每一个学生，而不是某个学生群体。也就是说，<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>的对象应该是某个学生，而不是所谓的某种血型的学生，或以成绩来划分的学生群体。就像一棵树上没有相同的叶子一样，每个学生都是不同的。如果学校为了所谓的<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>而对学生分类，显然违背了教育规律，与<SPAN lang=EN-US>“</SPAN>因材施教<SPAN lang=EN-US>”</SPAN>的理念背道而驰，是把好经给念歪了。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">关键字：家教，杭州家教，浙江，杭州，<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>＋<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>家教，浙大家教，找家教</SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期四, 21 十二月 2006 13:24:11 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104294.html 2006-12-21T13:24:11Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104293.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 18pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家庭教育成功的奥妙是什么</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="2" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-2-5</st1:chsdate><BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6d1f; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家庭是孩子健康成长的摇篮，是教育子女成才的第一所学校。成功的家庭教育能为孩子的成长和全面发展奠定坚实的基础。家庭教育要取得成功，应具备以下条件：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第一、家庭成员之间要平等相处，相互关心、爱护，相互尊重。这种和睦、民主、愉快的家庭生活，有助于孩子的身心健康地发展。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第二、家长的威信是家庭教育取得成功的重要条件。孩子不听话是家长没有威信的标志。而家长威信的建立，不能靠无原则的迁就、哄劝、爱抚，也不能靠物质和金钱的收买，更不能靠压制和打骂，而必须靠家长正直的品行、模范的行为和对孩子人格的尊重。家长得到孩子的尊重和信任，孩子就愿意把家长当成生活、学习以至工作的参谋和顾问，心甘情愿地听从指教。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第三、对孩子要求要一致。不仅家庭和学校的要求要一致，家庭所有成员对孩子的要求也要统一。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第四、要科学合理地安排生活，使孩子养成良好的生活习惯。家长要根据孩子的实际情况，帮助他们制订切实可行的起床、吃饭、做作业、做家务、游戏等作息时间，要求孩子严格遵守。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第五、要讲究方法，讲究教育艺术。教育是一门科学，有其自身的规律，家庭教育要符合教育规律，方法要科学。家长爱孩子要爱的适当，严格要求孩子要严的合理。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; &nbsp;</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第六、要为孩子创造必要的条件。家长要为孩子准备写作业的桌椅，放东西的抽屉，文体活动器具，有益活动的门票等。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">关键字：家教，杭州家教，浙江，杭州，<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>＋<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>家教，浙大家教，找家教，做家教，请家教<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期四, 21 十二月 2006 13:23:34 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104293.html 2006-12-21T13:23:34Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104292.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">儿童心理学家：孩子最怕听的十句话<SPAN lang=EN-US><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：杭州家教</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><FONT face="Times New Roman"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="2" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-2-5</st1:chsdate></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></FONT></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 12pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">--------------------------------------------------<o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">一些儿童心理专家最近在调查中发现，孩子最感恐惧的是家长会对他们说出如下的话：</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #ff6600">1</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #ff6600">、“傻瓜、没用的东西。”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #015aff">2</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #015aff">、“你简直是个废物。”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: fuchsia">3</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: fuchsia">、“你可真行，竟能做出这种事情。”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: green">4</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: green">、“住嘴！你怎么就是不听话呢？”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: purple">5</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: purple">、“我说不行就是不行！”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　<B>　<SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #ff7301">6</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #ff7301">、“我再也不管你了，随你的便好了。”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #333333">7</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #333333">、“求求你别再这样做好吗？”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: green">8</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: green">、“你若考了一百分，我就给你买……”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><B><SPAN style="COLOR: #015aff">9</SPAN></B></SPAN><B><SPAN style="COLOR: #015aff">、“你做这种事，真让我伤心透了。”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　<B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: #ff7301">10</SPAN><SPAN style="COLOR: #ff7301">、“你又做了错事，简直是坏透了。”</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　专家认为，孩子的心灵是脆弱的，他们希望得到支持和理解，每一句鼓励的话语，都会使孩子信心百倍，但是一句粗暴的呵斥，足可以使他们的尊严受到极大的伤害。轻易地否定自己的孩子，对他们的能力表示怀疑，是非常可怕的。“傻、呆、笨、坏”，在孩子的心中是最严厉的判决，无情地将他们变成了一个家庭或学校的“另类”，在与周围环境格格不入的同时，他们的心灵世界也会变得一片灰暗。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">关键字：家教，杭州家教，浙江，杭州，<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>＋<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>家教，浙大家教，找家教，做家教，请家教</SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期四, 21 十二月 2006 13:23:02 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104292.html 2006-12-21T13:23:02Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104291.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">提醒家长：合格家教的八个条件</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="2" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-2-5</st1:chsdate><BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">什么样的人才是一名合格的家庭教师？专家指出，做一名合格的家庭教师应具备<SPAN lang=EN-US>8</SPAN>大条件：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 27pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">1.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">喜欢孩子的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN>2.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">有事不得已必须休息，事前能通告的人，同时改日还能给补上课的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">迟到了，要说明迟到的原因，尽可能是不迟到的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 4.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">如果学校留的作业解决不了的时候，不是马上帮助解答，而是提出类似的问题让孩子解答，帮助孩子提高思维能力和解决问题的能力，而不是马上代孩子解决问题的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 5.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">想请他介绍进入有名中学时，他不立即作回答，而是让和学校班主任商量后再确定目标，不轻易许诺的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 6.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">能把自己上学或在学校时的刻苦学习、考试经验，全部介绍给孩子，并借以激发孩子，引起孩子的学习兴趣，教给孩子学习方法的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 7.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">能耐心指导神经质、成绩不好和有自卑感的孩子的人；孩子解答对了，立即表扬，增强他的学习热情的人；在学习以外，还能引导孩子游戏、运动，增强孩子自信心以及精神健康的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 8.</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">如果父母一不留神而说出学校老师不好，并带有批评口吻时，他在孩子面前不参与评论的人。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">关键字：家教，杭州家教，浙江，杭州，<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>＋<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>家教，浙大家教，找家教，做家教，请家教</SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期四, 21 十二月 2006 13:22:17 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104291.html 2006-12-21T13:22:17Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104290.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 16.25pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 13.5pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">要想改变孩子<SPAN lang=EN-US>,</SPAN>首先改变自己 </SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：杭州家教</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="2" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-2-5</st1:chsdate><BR></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6d1f; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;</SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">教育专家卢勤“好吃好喝好玩，女儿为啥还不高兴？”“如今那么好的条件，儿子为啥就是不爱学习？”……如今，很多家长都有着这样的困惑和疑问。<st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="6" Day="16" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False"><SPAN lang=EN-US>6</SPAN>月<SPAN lang=EN-US>16</SPAN>日</st1:chsdate>，市妇联联合本报举行的“一切为了孩子———沈阳市现代家庭教育系列公益报告”的第三场报告会上，被称为目前国内最懂孩子心理的教育专家、著名的“知心姐姐”卢勤为家长们破解了这些<SPAN lang=EN-US>.<BR><BR><SPAN style="mso-spacerun: yes">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </SPAN></SPAN>谈孩子：为啥总是不快乐？心太累！<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　说到如今的孩子，“知心姐姐”卢勤说，她觉得如今的中国孩子总是不快乐。她曾经去过非洲，对那里黑人孩子的笑容记忆深刻。每次和非洲孩子合影时，每张小黑脸都笑得灿烂露出雪白的牙齿。但每次和中国的孩子拍照时，都要说“茄子”，在孩子的脸上找不到真正的快乐。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　卢勤说，她曾对一个孩子说：“你多好，有<SPAN lang=EN-US>6</SPAN>个大人爱你。”孩子听后很郁闷地说：“要是每天有<SPAN lang=EN-US>6</SPAN>个大人、<SPAN lang=EN-US>12</SPAN>双眼睛盯着你，没有了一点自由的空间，谁还笑得出来啊？”家长填满的爱，让孩子缺少了自己的空间。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　此外，卢勤提到，如今家长过高的期望，使现在的孩子缺少成就感。从来都无法从自己的小进步中得到快乐和满足。现在的孩子存在“三大三小”：生活空间越来越大，生长空间小了；住房面积越来越大，心灵容积小了；学习压力越来越大，学习动力小了。孩子的精力被繁重的学习、兴趣班占据，没时间阅读、运动、亲近自然，这些都违背孩子天性，必定让他们不快乐。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　谈家长：怎样和孩子和睦相处？多沟通！<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　现场的互动问卷显示，几乎所有的家长最为苦恼的是孩子的不理解，无法正常沟通。卢勤说，要把自己当成孩子，从他们的角度考虑。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　今天的孩子很早熟，青春期“提前”了，而家长因为精神压力太大，更年期“提前”了，因此，“青春期”提前碰撞“更年期”，双方都不愿意去理解别人，冷静地处理问题。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　卢勤举了一个例子，一位母亲面对网瘾的女儿，没有打骂，更没有放弃。而是自己先学会电脑后和女儿在网上沟通，她告诉女儿：“不管你犯了什么错误，家里的门永远为你开着！”被感动的女儿回家了，从此好好学习，考上了大学。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　卢勤说，不管孩子犯了什么错误，家长都不要放弃他。家长要想改变孩子，首先要改变自己。孩子是非常烦恼的，别再把你的烦恼强加给他，学会和他们沟通，学会倾听。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　提建议：送家长“<SPAN lang=EN-US>5</SPAN>句忠告”<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　怎样能与孩子很好地沟通，“知心姐姐”送给家长们“<SPAN lang=EN-US>5</SPAN>句忠告”。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　“成人比成功重要”她认为，家长不要什么都为孩子做好了，要让他们自己承受应有的挫折，输得起的孩子才是最成功的孩子。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　“成长比成绩重要”心态决定成败，让孩子有颗平常心。不要只重视分数、名次，要注重孩子的整体成长。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　“经历比名次重要”孩子是在自己的体验中长大的，与其天天在乎孩子的成绩，不如在乎孩子从学习和生活中得到的体验与感受。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　“受爱比施爱重要”要给孩子付出自己爱的机会，不要让他们只知索取不知付出，要学会接受孩子的爱，给孩子爱家长的机会。<SPAN lang=EN-US><BR></SPAN>　　“对话比对抗重要”要多与孩子沟通，为他们创造宽松和谐的成长空间；激励比指责重要，要激发孩子的责任意识，用爱的眼睛去发现孩子。<SPAN lang=EN-US><o:p></o:p></SPAN></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">关键字：家教，杭州家教，浙江，杭州，<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>＋<SPAN lang=EN-US>1</SPAN>家教，浙大家教，找家教</SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期四, 21 十二月 2006 13:20:39 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/104290.html 2006-12-21T13:20:39Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102156.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">林肯：成功背后的两位母亲</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="3" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-3-5</st1:chsdate></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">林肯是美国历史上一位伟大的总统，深受人们的爱戴。从平民到总统，林肯经历了常人不及的坎坷和曲折。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">林肯有两位母亲，一个是他的生母，一个是他的继母，林肯不幸青少年失母，但又有幸得到一个深爱他，并支持他的继母。林肯的成功离不开他的两位伟大的母亲。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第一个母亲：品质的培养</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">林肯母亲南希是位个性善良，甚至有些羞涩的妇女。在决定事情时由于胆子小，通常是不采取主动，但林肯</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">5</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">岁时，她突然变得胆大起来。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">孩子必须上学</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">她说。林肯父亲托马斯开始反对：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">读书对于像我们这样的人家是不要紧的。另外，你需要他们在家帮忙，他很快就是个好帮手了。但在母亲的坚持下，林肯和姐姐都进入了两英里远的一所学校。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">你们今天学了什么？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">尽管很累，但南希还是常常的问。一次，林肯天真地问着他不知从哪儿听来的名词：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">妈，什么是解放？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">南希屏住了气，用目光注视着他：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">解放，就是自由，就是一个属于自己而不象奴隶一样属于别人。这是每个人应当有的权利，不管是什么肤色，这一点一定不要忘了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">孩子严肃的点了点头。南希心里轻松了，虽然她无法确定这番话对这个幼稚的孩子所产生的兴趣，后来历史却证明，她的这番话，影响了一个国家的进程，这番话对孩子心灵的震动是无法形容的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">就是这个令人尊敬的母亲给予自己的孩子以崇高的品质。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第二个母亲：伟大的爱与帮助</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">孩子的心灵向往爱，无私的爱。这爱对于他的成长有莫大的作用，促使他成为一个充满爱心的人。但仅有爱还是不够的，孩子的心灵渴望知识，渴望理解，渴望尊重。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">而林肯的继母萨利确实体会到了这一点，也切实做到了这一点。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">自从萨利来后，家务事就不用林肯操心了。他又可以抽出更多的时间来读书了。看到他如此爱读书，萨利就给他找来更多的书，生日时送给林肯一本他盼望很久的《英语缀字课本》。这些书可乐坏了林肯，他又可以重新徜徉在书的海洋中了。从这些书中他获得了大量的知识，能取得以后伟大的成就，他不能不感谢他的第二个母亲</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">---</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">萨利。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">母子俩有了共同语言，孩子爱着继母，而继母也继续用无私的爱来关心他，帮助他。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1823</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">年秋末的一天，他装着一肚子新闻去见萨利：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">妈，您猜怎么啦？人家说，阿泽尔</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">?</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">多西要办一所学校。我真希望也能去。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">萨利很高兴，她决定支持儿子。在她的坚持下，林肯的父亲终于同意了。这对于他的影响是具有决定性的。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">不管是在以后的生活，还是在他走进社会，步入政坛，萨利始终是林肯身后最强有力的支持。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">从一位平民到总统，可以说，林肯经历了许多令他难以忘怀的痛苦的过程。然而，就是这样一个倍受艰辛的人，改变了美国历史的进程，不可否认，这与他勤奋刻苦的精神、不屈的斗志及良好而珍贵的继母家教有密不可分的关系。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">林肯生活在一个拓荒者的家庭，可以说是不幸的。但是，他又同时拥有两个伟大的母亲，他的母亲对他的教育与影响导致了他的成功。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">林肯说过一句话：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">我的一切，都源于我天使般的母亲。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">有人问，你指的是哪一个母亲？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">两个。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">他肯定地回答。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期三, 20 十二月 2006 01:40:15 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102156.html 2006-12-20T01:40:15Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102155.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">让孩子享用一生的</SPAN></B><B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">6</FONT></SPAN></B><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">个好习惯</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">杭州家教</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">＋</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="4" Day="18" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-4-18</st1:chsdate></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">------------------------------------------------------------<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘要：我国著名青少年教育家<st1:PersonName w:st="on" ProductID="孙云晓">孙云晓</st1:PersonName>先生曾说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">好习惯对儿童来说是命运的主宰，是成功的轨道，是终身的财富，是人生的格调</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">……<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">我国著名青少年教育家<st1:PersonName w:st="on" ProductID="孙云晓">孙云晓</st1:PersonName>先生曾说：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">好习惯对儿童来说是命运的主宰，是成功的轨道，是终身的财富，是人生的格调</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">。因此，作为父母，一定要在孩子的习惯培养上下大功夫。培养孩子的良好习惯可从以下几个方面做起：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">（一）生活习惯</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">生活是人生第一课，也是最基本的课程，生活习惯的好坏，不仅影响幼儿的身心健康而且也是幼儿综合素质的体现。它包括饮食、起居、排便、卫生等习惯，做到按时睡眠、起床、安静睡眠并有正确的睡姿，不挑食、不偏食、细嚼慢咽，饭前便后正确洗手、早晚刷牙，饭后漱口等。父母要根据孩子的年龄特点，适当为孩子立规矩，如：玩具玩完后必须放回原处，逐渐养成自己的东西自己整理和爱清洁，讲卫生，有条理的好习惯。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">（二）文明礼貌习惯</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">礼貌看起来是种外在行为的表现，实际上它反映着人的内心修养，体现一个人自尊和尊重他人的意识。父母要教育孩子，学习使用文明礼貌用语，如</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">您好</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">请</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">谢谢</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">对不起</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">、</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">请原谅</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">。同时，要注意培养孩子的文明举止，见人要热情打招呼，别人问话要先学会倾听，并有礼貌地回答，保持服装整洁，站有站相，坐有坐相。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">（三）道德习惯</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">养成良好的道德习惯，幼儿才能和别人友好相处，积极追求美好的事物，自觉遵守社会行为规范，具有高度责任感，将来才能成为社会上成熟可敬的人。它包括各种行为规则，尊敬关爱长辈，不随地地大小便、不损坏花草、树木、爱护公共财务，遵守交通规则，能换位思考、团结友爱等等。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">（四）学习习惯</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">良好的学习习惯对幼儿的学习兴趣与学习成绩有很大的影响，与幼儿的成材直接相关。它包括自主学习、合作学习、探究性学习。学习好的孩子学习习惯都比较好，而学习不好的孩子多数并不是因为脑子笨，而是没有良好的学习习惯。如：不长时间看电视、玩电脑游戏，不需要父母的督促、陪伴能自觉完成学习任务，学习专心认真，经常进行广泛的阅读，知道珍惜时间，什么时间做什么事情等。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">（五）思维习惯</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">良好的思维习惯有助于孩子从正确的角度和方面思考问题，有助于孩子能力的锻炼，知识的获取以及运用所学的知识灵活的解决问题。如：感觉接触了解新鲜事物，善于观察，勤于动脑，遇到问题能独立思考和解决。特别是要具有创新精神和创新能力。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">（六）劳动习惯</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: blue; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">培养孩子爱惜劳动成果，孩子劳动不是为了创造物质和精神财富，而是为了培养初步的劳动习惯，促进孩子身心健康成长。要求自己能做的事情自己做，自己穿脱衣服、学着铺床叠被等，另外帮父母干些家务活，如：帮助摆碗筷、擦桌、扫地、倒垃圾等等。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">值得注意的是，在培养孩子各种良好习惯的同时，父母首先要转变自己的观念，增长培养意识，提高自身素质，以身作则。在进行培养时还要注意方式方法，坚持不懈，严格要求。总而言之，播下一种行动，收获一种习惯；播下一种习惯，收获一种命运。</SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff6600; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 15.8pt; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5"><FONT size=3><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">关键字：杭州家教，家教，找家教，家教网，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: blue"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">＋</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: blue"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN></B><B style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal"><SPAN style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">家教，浙大家教，做家教，好家教</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="COLOR: blue"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></B></FONT></P></DIV>]]> 星期三, 20 十二月 2006 01:39:22 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102155.html 2006-12-20T01:39:22Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102154.html <![CDATA[ <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教已成生活时尚</SPAN></B><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1+1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="3" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-3-5</st1:chsdate></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">在现今的社会，家教已成为一种生活时尚。越来越多的家长都愿为孩子请一个家教，做为学校课堂教学的有益补充。但不同的学生对各门功课的掌握并不会处在同一水准上。因此，家长通常会为孩子有针对性地选择一位合适的家教，把孩子在课堂上掌握得并不系统或不够透彻的知识做一个概括总结，一方面可以温故知新，另一方面也能及时发现孩子在学习上的问题。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; WORD-BREAK: break-all; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">在选择家教上，更多的家长将眼光寄予在大学生家教身上，这当然于大学生家教自身所具备的特点是分不开的。大学生的年龄与中、小学生更接近些，语言上的隔阂会相对较小，在授课过程中更容易与孩子沟通。而对于大学生来说，除去自身的课业以外，大学的生活节奏并不是很紧张，他们都将家教作为丰富自己人生的一种方式，希望通过这种方式帮助别人，所以大学生索取的报酬也就相对较低。同时，大学生自己本身也积累了一些关于学习感触和心得，这些同样是对给孩子的一种借鉴。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <DIV></DIV>]]> 星期三, 20 十二月 2006 01:38:18 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102154.html 2006-12-20T01:38:18Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102153.html <![CDATA[ <DIV> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">妙用</SPAN></B><B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN></B><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">超级</SPAN></B><B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN></B><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">学习法</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">＋</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="2" Day="5" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-2-5</st1:chsdate></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; COLOR: #ff6600; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">准备好四个书签，每天四个书签都要往前移动，进行学习或复习。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第一个书签是</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">开路先锋</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">，它的主要任务是认真地阅读，深入地思考，广泛地联想，并随时查阅有关的资料</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">认真学习完毕后，要将当页的所有学习内容，总结出一个又一个的问题（不能遗漏），将之写在书上每页最上面的空白处，然后根据这些问题，一一提问自己一遍（不要看书），能回答上来的，就算通过；回答不上来的，再回头认真阅读一遍，直至在不看书的情况下，可以用自己的语言，完整、准确、流畅地说出来。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第二个书签的任务，是要复习前一天所学的东西（也就是第一个书签所</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">扫描</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">过的内容）。根据德国心理学家艾宾浩斯著名的遗忘曲线，人的遗忘速度是先快后慢，因此如果能及时复习，也就是在自己对所学的材料还没有遗忘的情况下，用不多的时间把所学的东西及时巩固住。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">而有许多学习者，对于所学的东西，没有能及时安排复习的时间，结果等到他们想复习的时候，学习的内容已经完全遗忘了。所以他们又得花原来同样甚至是几倍的时间重新学习（原本只需花很少的时间），这就很费时间而不经济了。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">此外，从第二个书签开始复习时，一定要先看第一遍学习时所罗列出的问题，而不要直接看原文。对于所列的问题，必须进行尝试回忆，能完整、准确、顺畅回答出来的算通过，若不能再去仔细看书，并在相应的问题上标明记号</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">.<o:p></o:p></FONT></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">尝试回忆是一种比阅读更积极的过程。它要求大脑更积极地活动，同时又是一种自我检查、自我监督的过程，使人可以集中精力掌握不能回忆的部分或改正回忆中的错误，因此是提高学习积极性和效率的重要方法。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">回答问题时应尽量用自己的语言来表达，因为用自己的话来再现，会改善对材料的理解。理解不好的材料通常还停留在</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">别人的</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">语言形式上，而理解得好的材料，才容易翻译成</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">自己的语言</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第三个书签离第二个书签的距离，要比第二个书签与第一个书签的距离远些。第三个书签所复习的内容，应是一个星期前自己所学的内容。除了完成与第二个书签完全相同的程序以外，在第三个书签的复习工作时，还应注意把第一阶段所学的内容进行归纳总结。美国教育心理学家布鲁纳认为，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">人类记忆的首要问题在于组织</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">。一般说来，按照一个人自己的兴趣和认识结构组织起来的材料，就是最有希望在记忆中</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">自由出入</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">的材料。对材料进行加工整理的前提是分析和综合、加深理解。编写提纲是一种词的逻辑记忆方式，因为它把</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">别人</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">的语言形式，通过积极的智力活动，转化为</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">自己的语言</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">。如数学中三角函数部分的内容可整理为一二三四（一个推广二类问题三组公式四个图象及性质）。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第四个书签与第三个书签相隔的更远，它是复习和检查一个月前学习的内容。一般来说，经过前三轮的学习与复习，绝大多数内容都应已熟练无误地掌握。如果此时还有不熟和错误的地方，要加倍警惕，认真补漏，并做上记号，以备阶段复习和最后总复习时提醒自己格外注意。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">以上就是超级学习复习法的主要内容，综上所述，它有以下几个优点：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第一，稳扎稳打，令人有一种踏实感，有效感，避免产生急躁、焦虑、学不进去、不能专注等诸多不良的学习心理。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第二，省时高效，合理经济。此法安排学习复习间隔合理，大大少于一遍完成再来一遍的四轮复习的时间，却远远高于单独进行的四轮复习的效果。因为如前所述，一轮复习完成后，因与初次学习间隔时间过长、复习往往又变成了重新学习。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">第三，监督反馈，了然于胸。通过提问题再尝试回忆的方法，可随时了解哪些部分是自己已经熟练掌握的了，哪些还不是，然后对不熟练的部分，集中精力打歼灭战，既节省了时间，又保证了学习的质量。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P></DIV>]]> 星期三, 20 十二月 2006 01:37:36 GMT http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102153.html 2006-12-20T01:37:36Z http://blog.china.com:80/u/061211/20633/200612/102152.html <![CDATA[ <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=center><B><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">评教授请家教现象</SPAN></B><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR><BR></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">摘编：</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">＋</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教网</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">推荐星级</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> </FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #ff7301; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">★★★★★</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman"> <?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /><st1:chsdate w:st="on" Year="2006" Month="4" Day="6" IsLunarDate="False" IsROCDate="False">2006-4-6</st1:chsdate></FONT></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><BR></SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 9pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">-------------------------------------------------------------<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">最近一段时间来，</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">＋</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">1</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家教的</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">工作人员</SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">在整理工作资料的时候，发现了一个有趣的现象，在</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">10</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">月份的家教订单记录中，发现有近十个<st1:PersonName w:st="on" ProductID="家教是">家教是</st1:PersonName>教授给自己孩子请的，在一般人眼里，高学历高素质的人一般是不需要请家教的，那么，为何最近频频出现教授请家教这种现象呢？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt 10pt 10pt 9.95pt; TEXT-INDENT: 16.5pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan; mso-para-margin-top: 10.0pt; mso-para-margin-right: 10.0pt; mso-para-margin-bottom: 10.0pt; mso-para-margin-left: .95gd; mso-char-indent-count: 1.5" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">《三字经》中说道</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">养不教，父之过，教不严，师之惰。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">在两千年以前，古人就开始思考</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">家长</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">与</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">“</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">教师</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><FONT face="Times New Roman">”</FONT></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">的职能，值得我们思考的是：一个出色的教师必定能教好自己的孩子吗？</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-hansi-font-family: &#718;&#805;; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体">没有谁能就这个问题给出答案。</SPAN><SPAN lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 11pt; COLOR: #666666; FONT-FAMILY: &#718;&#805;; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P> <P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 10pt; TEXT-INDENT: 20pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-pagination: widow-orphan" align=left>